The Gay And Lesbian Lie
Gays and Lesbians argue, that they only want to be treated right and fair, and, enjoy the same benefits, as all other groups in America’s society. I believe that they should be allowed to enjoy the same benefits, as everyone else, so that they too, can experience the “American Dream”, and, not the “American Nightmare”. However, after studying the Gay and Lesbian Movement, for over many years, I have noticed something totally different, from what the gay and lesbian crowd, is trying to project, and that is, gays and lesbians, not only want the rights and privileges, as other groups in America, but, they also want to push a gay and lesbian agenda, meaning, they want to push their sexual orientation off on others, and, they are notorious, for attacking anyone who does not agree with their life style. For example, when Carrie Prejean, represented, the state of California, in the Miss U.S,A., Beauty Padget, judge Perez Hilton, asked her a question, concerning marriage. Carrie responded, by pointing out that she felt that marriage should be between a man and a woman. The audience booed, Miss Prejean, and, Perez Hilton, while making a statement to others, referred, to Ms. Prejean as a bitch, in which he later apologize. Many gays and lesbians, are always running around, accusing others, of gay and lesbian bashing, when several of them are guilty of the same thing. If one says that he or she does not agree with the gay and lesbian life style, automatically the homosexual community will accuse that person of being homophobic, when that is probably farthest from the truth. It is a manipulation technique, used by homosexuals, in order to control a person’s freedom of expression, which is guaranteed, in the First Amendment, of the U.S. Constitution. Just because a person, does not agree with the homosexual life style, doesn’t, make him or her homophobic. For example, if a white person, disagrees with affirmative action, it does not necessarily, means the he or she is a racist. If a man disagrees with certain aspects of the Feminist Movement, it does not mean, that he is a male chauvinistic pig. The big lie, about the gay and lesbian groups, is that they project the notion that they only want to be treated like everyone else, when in fact, they want to be treated better than everyone else. They appear to want special rights and privileges, that others do not possess, and, several of them have the attitude, of entitlement, as if society owes them something. Gays and lesbians, claim that, what they do in their private lives, is not any-one’s business, while at the sometime, having gay and lesbian, parades all across this nation. They call it “Gay and Lesbian Pride Day”. Not only this, but many of them, always want everyone, to know their sexual orientation. Whether a person is heterosexual, bisexual, or homosexual, it really should not matter, because, what a person does in his or her private life, is his or her own business, and not any-body’s else’s. However, homosexuals, take their private lives and make them public, by parading around on public television, and, then they have the nerve or audacity to get upset, when others began to attack their way of life. When individuals, or groups, put their private lives on public display, they set themselves up to be attacked, by the mass media, and other powerful agents of political socialization, within this country. In other words, I cannot go into the lion’s den, and, then get upset, when the lion attacks me. Whatever, a person’s sexual orientation is, he or she should just keep it to themselves. If may car breaks down, I just want the mechanic to fix it. I don’t need to know his or her sexual philosophy, just fix the car. If I have a toothache, I do not need to know whether the dentist, is heterosexual, bisexual, or homosexual, just stop my tooth from hurting. Finally, if someone attacks, or hurts an individual, just because that person happens to be a homosexual, the attacker needs to be thrown in jail. Why? Well it is very simple, it is wrong, and not only that, but, if someone attacks an individual just because that person happens to be a homosexual, that same attacker, will attack an individual, just because, that person happens to be an African American, or Hispanic, or Jew, or Asian. Nevertheless, the gay and lesbian communities, across this nation, must stop trying to control some-one’s freedom of expression, just because, the individual or group, does not agree with the homosexual life style. Anything less than this, would be hypocritical, on the part of the homosexual community. After all, I have come across gays and lesbians who were, racist, sexist, and, hetero-phobic.
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January 23, 2009>>>>
I believe that a marriage should be between a woman and man. I am old school and I know things are changing and people are changing, and the world has definately changed. I have gay friends (few) and lesbian friends (few) and I don’t have anything negative to say about them.
But I made it perfectly clear to both that they never approach me in any way. I always asked them questions, about their sexuality, because I just want to know. WHen we go out, that’s when I draw the line with them, because they are so open with their sexuality. I feel that is not appropriate to do in public.
People already stare, when they are holding hands, to just conversating with each other. But they are alot of fun to be around. Especially for me my gay friends, they have this different way they communicate. They use abreviations, and different slang for different things, and it’s hilarious.
But I believe they are taking this gay and lesbian stuff way out of control, because now they want to adopt children. If you asked a child how many mommies do you have? He would say, I have two mommies, or vise versa, Two daddies!!!!!
Now I don’t feel that they should be able to adopt. Or even the ones that have their own children already…..they shouldn’t be introduced to anything like that.
The statement that screams for an immediate response is the ‘Homosexual Agenda’ accusation. First one needs to examine the ‘Heterosexual Agenda’ for comparison. I don’t even know where to begin to address that. Pay close attention to the media and to our mainstream culture. The Gay and Lesbian community does not blast their sexuality everywhere, it’s quit the opposite.
When I watch television, the news, walk up and down the halls of our school, I do not see homosexual’s making out at every opportunity, I see the hetero couples flaunting the fact that they are in relationships for every single eye to see. It’s flashed on billboards, headlines and in casual conversation. So it is a ‘homosexual agenda’ when requesting the same freedom of expression, but not a ‘heterosexual agenda’ when that is all we see in our culture on a daily basis
I will agree with you on the fact that it doesn’t matter what people do in the privacy of their own homes. However, when you say that the gays and lesbian parade their private lives for everyone to see, it is totally wrong. Every culture blasts themselves in parades and promotion. The GLBT community only wants to be accepted just as others have been in this country. To say that marriage is a santity between a man and woman is hypocritical. Straight couples are so quick to divorce, turning marriage into some big joke. The GLBT community fights for a right that straight couples throw away every single day.
Marriage is a civil contract, not a religious one. The state issues a marriage license to its citizens. All citizens who are legal residents and pay equal taxes, are entitled to equal protection under the law. Churches are entitled to their own belief systems. But we live in a country that has a very clear separation of church and state. So religious views should not influence our laws.
You say that the GLBT community must stop trying to control someone’s freedom of expression yet here you are stating that the GLBT community shouldn’t express themselves. African American’s have the chance to express themselves. After all, February is supposedly ‘Black History Month’. Should America put that to an end? After all, isn’t it the Black Community forcing their views on everyone that isn’t of color? This is the same thing! It would seem as though America was trying to control the GLBT Community from expressing their freedom that this country has to offer.
The Gay and Lesbian Community has every right to express themselves and if it’s a single day to have a parade in the middle of the city then so be it, if it means a two women or two men become a couple on a hit TV show then they have every right. America makes exceptions to every single race, sex, culture in this country. Also, regarding the first commenter, what is so wrong with a homosexual couple having children? I can almost guarantee that any child raised will turn out like any other child. They will be in a loving and caring home with people that love and support them no matter what.
In my personal opinion everyone should have the right to do anything they want as longest is for good not to break criminal or any other laws. As for gays and lesbians they should be allowed to live their life however they want because they are not hurting anyone they are just expressing their feelings!!!!
Gays and lesbians are always accusing people of hating them, especially Christians, just because they speak out against homosexuality. Since when does not agreeing with an issue represent hate? The real problem with homosexuals is that they are not happy with just being homosexual in an accepting world, but they want to change laws and views to suit their agenda. They want their abomination to be the norm.
I think that these people should be left alone and should be able to live their lives the way they choose to. Im not for it not against it we just shouldn’t be concerned about it as long as they are not doing something illegal. If they don’t want to be pointed out and talked about they shouldn’t be doing things in public.
Webb, I have a few questions for you. How long have you studied the Gay and Lesbian Movement? What is the most powerful Gay organization in the world, and what is their philosophy? Why have gays and lesbians, compared their stuggle for equality with that of African Americans, for over 25-years? Webb, do you believe in the philosophy of the largest gay organization in the world?
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Bowtie Professor-
I am curious as to what motivated you to study the gay and lesbian movement over a period of years, when it is obvious that you do not have a very high regard for this particular population and have an underlying resentment regarding the comparison of their struggle to the African American community.
You ask me questions that really have little to do with your previous post. Are these some kind of trick questions? You ask me what the largest gay organization in the world is, when just about each country and state in the United States has their own organizations.
Just to name a few of the known groups, there is The Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation or GLAAD, which is dedicated to promoting and ensuring fair, accurate and inclusive representation of people and events in the media as a means of eliminating homophobia and discrimination based on gender identity and sexual orientation.
There is also International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission or IGLHRC, which is a leading international organization dedicated to human rights advocacy on behalf of people who experience discrimination or abuse on the basis of their act actual or perceived sexual orientation, gender identity or expression.
But if you have studied the Gay and lesbian movement, then I’m sure you know of these organizations, and I am confident that none have demonstrated a ‘homosexual’ agenda and I’m curious as to how this even relates to the ‘homosexual agenda’ that you claim exists.
GLBT people have compared their struggle with African Americans because they are both civil rights issues. Equality and equal treatment under the law is a civil rights issue regardless of what group it is. It’s not ‘special rights’, it’s ‘equal rights’.
I don’t have to tell you that most civil rights have been won through the legislature or in the courts, “Loving Vs Virginia” the right for interracial couples to marry, “Brown Vs Board of Education” the right to equal education for all Americans, “The Civil Rights Act of 1964” that outlawed segregation and legally prohibited discrimination.
Do you think that any of these civil rights would have been awarded if they had been put to a popular vote of the time? The majority would never have granted equal rights to the minority if it had totally depended on popular opinion. And would you deny these same rights to the gay and lesbian population who pay equal taxes and are supposed to be equal citizens in the eyes of the law? The church of earlier days claimed that interracial relationships where ‘an abomination before God.’ The same as today’s churches claim about homosexual relationships. Still refusing to accept that in the United States we are supposed to have a clear separation of church and state. Who gets what rights should not depend on religious views.
That is why the Gay and Lesbian Community compares its struggle with that of the African American community and can not depend on the oppressive heterosexual community to grant equality through a voting system.
Now, to get back on to the original topic, my question to you is, do you deny a heterosexual agenda? Do you still honestly believe that the glimpses of homosexual lifestyles that you see here and there outweighs the blatant and predominant heterosexual culture that is blasted at us from every source?
Elizabeth, the largest gay organization in the world is the “North American Organization of Man And Boy Love”. Also, I have already given both the similarities and differences, between the African American struggle for equality, and, the Gay and Lesbian struggle, for equality. Therefore, I already know why the homosexual community associate their struggle for equality with black folks in America. I explained that in another article, on this same website, a few months ago, entitled ” The African American and Gay and Lesbian Struggle: A Comparative Analysis. After reading this article, it should answer all of your questions. The reason I wrote the article in the first place, was because I got tired of black ministers across this nation protesting the Gay and Lesbian Movement, and, when the journalist or reporter, would ask them, “how is the gay and lesbian movement different from the African American Movement”? The black ministers could not give the reporter a logical answer. I also noticed that when the same question was asked to the homosexual community, they could not give a logical explaination either. Therefore, I gave a few elementary examples of how both movements are alike, and how both movements differ. The reason I asked you those certain questions Elizabeth, was because I wanted to see if you were going to respond with intellect or emotions. Also I wanted to see how well read that you were. As a heterosexual, African American male, I have studied the gay and lesbian struggle for over 23-years, because as a young man, I could not understand, why they associated their struggle for equality with that of the African American, since one of my Master’s Degree, is in Black History. Elizabeth, the answer to your question is yes. I do see heterosexuals, making fun of homosexuals, and I rebuke them very strongly, because as a kid growing up in a Air Force family, I have lived all across the U.S., and Europe, and, in all of my classes I was the only black, and, I was made fun of a great deal, but at the same time, I have walked up on white gays and lesbians, making fun of black folks. In other words, Elizbeth, I have found a lot of homosexuals to be racist as hell. Nevertheless, your point was well taken.
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I think your sexual preference is your business. No im not gay but I can just imagine how they get judged all the time. I feel like they have to go to heaven or hell for themselves, if everybody just worried about themselve more this world could possiable be a better place.
The Gay and Lesbian community has so many issues that it makes me not really give them much importance. You see, in my opinion they do want special treatment. They pounce around like it shouldn’t bother anyone what life style they have chosen. I am not a homophobic but sometimes I feel like they act the way they act because people let them. For example, a gay guy I knew once was loud and obnoxious when we were in public. Of course, my friends and I would laugh at the things he would do. It was like we would hinder his behavior. Now that I look back at those moments in my life I’m kind of ashamed because people would always stare. He was loud just to have attention from others and it wasn’t like his behavior was very manly. Where is the line drawn where the gay/lesbians want privacy? Some people want it to be known that they are gay and that they are proud and others simply just want to live their lives and no one bother them. Perez Hilton for instance is another example of someone we accommodate to. He disrespects people all the time and the public lets him because he is so funny! Not to me, he should be treated like everyone else. He would be so offended if someone would talk about how fruity he was and maybe start a gay movement. I am sorry but if he would say something about me and think he would get away with it he would totally be wrong. I would make him regret that he ever passed judgment on me. I believe gay/lesbian people should keep it to themselves and no one would be quick to judge them. I have no problems with the gay/lesbians but if they want equality they have to take in consideration that they will not receive special treatment just because they are different.
Class mon and wed at 12:30
I believe everyone should have the right to be with whomever they want to be with. Whether that be girl and girl or boy and boy. On the subject of gays and lesbians wanting special rights, I think they should have the same rights as straight people. There is not a need to have more rights than the other but I do believe both should be treated equally. I understand that many people have not become adjusted go the ways of life. Many people say that the world is changing and being homosexual or bisexual is becoming more and more common bu still is not being accepted by many people. I think they can do what they want in their privat lives as well as the public. Straight people can express their emotions in public so I believe homosexuals should be able to as well.
I’m a strong believer in the Bible, and in the Bible, and in 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, it says, “Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.” Another verse is in Leviticus 20:13 - “If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads.” I personally don’t agree with homosexuality because of what it says in the Bible, but I don’t pass judgement upon gays/lesbians. If they’re gay/lesbians, let them be, but as for pursuing anything with another gay/lesbian, as in relationships, marriage, etc., it’s not right, but they shouldn’t be treated differently because of their orientation. We are all humans, just with different wants, views, orientations, etc.
I have met many gays and lesbians in my life and I am actually really close friends with some. I think everyone has their own beliefs in life and they should do whatever they please, because afterall, it is their lives. I dont like that many people are so-called homophobic just because they dont agree with their lifestyles, but what about those who are athiest? Their beliefs are different also, but people usually dont discriminate against them. I think that is unfair. Although I have met some people who were gay/lesbian and they were racist or discriminated others, they are probably upset that most people can’t take them as they are. Everyone should be treated the same, no matter what race or orientation they are.
While I do strongly believe that marriage should be between a man and a woman, I would not consider myself a homophobe. I have carried out friendships with gay people and have enjoyed and appreciated those friendships. I just believe what I believe. i remember the part about the Miss America pageant, but what is so funny to me is that last year Perez Hilton got into a scuffle with a member of the Black Eyed Peas and he called that guy a fag. Something that he has vehemently been opposed of using that word, so he contradicted himself. I do think that gays and lesbians feel like society owes them something, or maybe they feel that they are owed something for all the harsh treatment they receive from people. Whatever the reason may be it isn’t right for anyone of any gender, race, class or sexualiaty to push that lifestyle on to somebody.
Everyone in this world have the right to be whatever they want to be. If its gay lesbian straight whatever it is that makes you happy do it. Im tired of people always having something to say about someone. I understand that in some peoples religion its a sin but its not for you to judge that person in anyway. God himself didnt put us here on this earth to judge people and make fun of then whenever we feel like it. That person has every right to live as he/she wants to, the same way we decided to be what we are they decide who they are not u.
I agree professor. I believe they should have the same right, but at the same time don’t push it for other people to except your life style and or use it as a crutch. When you talk about your personal life in the work place or whereever don’t expect people to be sympathetic or except it. It’s your personal life and that where its needs to stay, not everyone cares or wants to know. It is not just for gays or lesbians; that goes for everybody.
kevin hamilton
political science
tues-thurs 11:00
i agree with the idea that maybe some individuals are comeing off way to strong on some issues for lesbian and gay individuals. I also believe that the dialogue ar the debate should always still go on but just in a friendly manner. In other words I do not beleive that the homesexual community is trying to push their views on any other group of people. I do believe though that the lgbt community is seeking acceptance from mainstream society. meaning when individuals tell them they should not marry or they should not adopt children i only feel that it is natural for those individuals to want to engage in debate on those issues. Trying to explain the importance and why this matters to them. This is my opinion is freedom of expression. We have rights as americans to disagree with what the other person is saying its called debateing simply put.
kevin hamilton
political science
tues-thurs 11:00
kevin hamilton
political science
tues-thurs 11:00
govt 2302-4010
i agree with the idea that maybe some individuals are comeing off way to strong on some issues for lesbian and gay individuals. I also believe that the dialogue ar the debate should always still go on but just in a friendly manner. In other words I do not beleive that the homesexual community is trying to push their views on any other group of people. I do believe though that the lgbt community is seeking acceptance from mainstream society. meaning when individuals tell them they should not marry or they should not adopt children i only feel that it is natural for those individuals to want to engage in debate on those issues. Trying to explain the importance and why this matters to them. This is my opinion is freedom of expression. We have rights as americans to disagree with what the other person is saying its called debateing simply put.
kevin hamilton
political science
tues-thurs 11:00
govt 2302-4010
If someone wants to be gay or lesvian that’s their problem. There’s nothing people can do but let them be who they want to be. Yes i have some gay friends and they have their reasons for being that way. Only god can judge people. So if someone wants to be gay let them be gay it wont hurt nobody and they will be happy.
Most people are to overly sensitive to the views or opinions of others. Like getting there approve really means something.
Everybody should be treated equal, however with that they should not be treated better or have special privileges that other groups do not have.
There is no different in my mind, between a man attacking me cause I have money in my wallet and a man attacking me cause I’m white. I’m still hurt, my life is still changed, so what different does it make whether its a robbery or a hate crime?
The different is the punishment that is given out. Armed Robbery 3-5 years, hate crime up to 25 years in prison. I wouldn’t want that for another person, even if they attacked me.
Prison/jail is flat out toture. So I wouldn’t condamn someone to that.
In short, being equal means taking the good with the bad. Having the same rights and privileges however giving up somo things. If your smart enough you know how to achieve being equal without having a bill passed.
I do not have any gay friends but I have been around them and they have never tried to push their sexuality on me. I do mind that they are gay because I do not believe that is how society should be. I believe that marriage is supposed to be between a man and a woman. I do not believe that people are born gay or lesbian, I think that is just in their heads. People think well let them just be happy and get married but many do not see how that affects society. Once a gay couple is married, they would want to have children. Obviously they cannot have any children of their own because you need a man and a woman, doesn’t that already say that marriage between a man and another man is wrong? I completely disagree in them adopting because it can really have an impact in the child’s life. The child can go through rejection, be bullied, and sometimes cause life-threating situations.
If people would only stop paying attention to things that are not their business we would not have issues like this. It is everyones individual right to do whatever they want with their individual lives as long as it does not endanger anyone else. Really what do i care what some gay or lesbian wants do or what sex they mary. Then again someone or something must adapt to their environment not vice versa. Homosexuals should acknowledge that not everyone is going to accept them. Now, I have to problems with homosexuals, but I do think that they should respect everyone else just like they expect to be treated. If homosexuals dont attract any attention to themselves then no one will mess with them. Just like everyone else is expected to keep their sexual lives private they should do the same, that would mean equal treatment.
I agree but I also disagree. I agree in the fact that gays and lesbians have to always put out there that they are gay while wanting their lives personal but I do believe they have been, in a lack of a better word, mistreated. They have been denied love. If a woman loves another woman and it’s real true love, let them have the right to marry! It seems the reason gay marriage is illegal is because it’s against the bible. That’s not the least bit fair to those who are not christian or religious. I believe they have the right to marry anyone they please. I think they have a right to have parades as a form of protest and strength for the gay community. They are just trying to stand up for themselves. They do, however, tend to think those who don’t agree are homophobic. I do believe that is true. But everybody does that. If somebody disagrees whith you, for most people, the first instinct is to fire back and think they are trying to hurt your pride. I support gay marriages because I think eveyone has that right.
Gays and lesbians do tend to accuse people of hating them. I honestly think no one should worry about who hates them for what they are. I feel like being gay or lesbian comes with a lot of struggle. You have to be strong if you are gay and proud or lesbian and proud. I feel like a lot of it comes from gays and lesbians not being comfident in who they are, so they worry about what other people think of them.
I feel compassion for these people, I think some of them try to hard to be accepted, when they should be like the rest of us, the ones who find happiness within themselves. Personally, I think they were born that way, and should not be put down any more that any body else. I don’t feel that they should try to push themselves off on others any more than any body else. I think they are hurt, for a lot of reasons, one is that they cannot help the way they are, a lot of people don’t understand and find them offensive. How would you feel if you were always being laughed at or something demeaning. Oh yeah they can be over the top but why? They are going to have to live for God. He is a healer.
Bowtie Professor–
It has taken me a while to get around to responding to this but do you realize that the “North American Organization of Man And Boy Love” is not classified as a Gay and Lesbian organization?
NAMBLA, as it’s also known as if practically for older men and little boys. If you check into it, most Gay and Lesbian organizations such as International Lesbian and Gay Association and Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation do not show any support for this organization. Even the Human Rights Campaign has come out and said that it is not a gay/lesbian organization.
It’s an organization for pedophiles! I do not put my support into an organization that supports sexual relations between children and adult male even women. Pedophilia is an issue that has nothing to do with gay/lesbian rights.
Elizabeth, your point is well taken.
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I think that everyone has the right to do with their lives whatever they want to, but I don’t agree with people who is homosexual to make a big deal when someone says that they don’t agree with them getting marry, as Carrie Prejean did, I think that as they have the freedom express themselves by saying they are homosexual, other people has the right to say what they think about it. In my personal opinion I am not against them getting marry or doing whatever they want but I don’t agree with the fact that, as the article reads, they make it public, they expose themselves to being criticized, and then they get mad when it happens.I just think that we should let everyone be and say whatever they want to.
People have a personal way of thinking in which one is in charge of choosing his or her orientation. Gays and lesbians have a different view point but regardless of that what they choose should not affect others life. Everyone has an individual life in which each individual controls it on there own. I do agree that although this it true gays and lesbians shouldn’t portray their personal life out into public society. People can do as they please i myself have bisexual friends and even family too but it does not affect my personal life. But in my personal opinion marriage is between a woman and a man due to the fact of reproduction to keep life continuing.
I very much agree with the bowtie professor of the statement that if you are talking to a gay person or even around a gay person and they hear you say you are not comfortable hanging around them they automatically flip out. I have noticed it is more lesbians who have the more angry things to say. If they think they should have the same rights as everyone they should start behaving like everyone else, we dont have straight parades. Every individual has their own rights so they can do what they want but dont be angry with the people who dont agree.
I believe that everyone should have the right to marry whoever they want, true love is true love. For what i see, the rainbow community sticks with eachotehr way longer than the heterosexual community. There more heterosexual couples divorcing/separating/breaking up/etc. than compared to the homosexual community. I believe they just want, like you said, to be treated equally, and have the same rights as others. Everyone, or at least almost everyone, wants to have that happy family with their significant other, meaning more than likely they want a kiddo around the house. Yes its ok (to me at least) to be open to a different side of things, seeing new things out there is great that way you have a little more knowledge about this or that and you won’t be quick to judge on other things. The couple should teach their kiddo or kiddos about both sides, the heterosexual and the homosexual community, that way when they start going to school and start playing with other kiddos of the neighborhood they know that there is another side to this world.
They deserve the same opportunity just liek any other human being, after all, at the end, they still do come from the same creator just as everyone else(if religion is brought into this). Yes God might be against homosexuality, and it is very much shown through the people that stand on the corners and start yelling at the people that participate in the pride parades that they are doing this and this and this wrong and that theyre basically going to hell. BUT!!!!! God does want us (everyone in general) to be happy, and if a man beign with a man and a woman being with a woman makes them happy, God should be ok with it. yes it does contradict, but at the end He does want all of us to be happy, and to be peaceful with one another.
So at the end, I hope they get the same rights just liek everyone else. Yes there might be some people that are BLAH about it and don’t like it, but get over it! It’s not the 1900s anymore! We all should be open to new t hings now. Things are changing, people are learning how to stand up for themselves.
If a person chooses to be gay or lesbian that is their concern, it is out of our control if their preference is not of a different kind. Yes some people might be bothered by it, but they should not make a big deal of it, unless they show public affection, then I can see were people would start to get upset. It is one thing to be homosexual and keep it to yourself, like their private time, but it’s another thing to put it on public display for others to see. That is what causes problems, and that’s were many people start to judge and criticize them, but when homosexuals show public affection they should already know they had it coming for them and they should not get very defensive over it. I’m not saying they have to hide because that wouldn’t be right, but I would say most of the society is against homosexuals.
Gays and lesbians as a group should not be critized for attacking others for going against their views, it is just some who do it, not all.
I do think Perez Hilton was wrong for calling Carrie a “bitch”, just because she believes a marriage should be between a man and woman, that does not mean she is homophobic or going against his lifestyle and beliefs . Carrie was just simply expressing herself, afterall dont the people want a peagant winner who is real and honest?
Also gays and lesbians are not the only group to attack someone for not agreeing with their beliefs, religious groups do it, and also ethnic/race groups do it too. For example if a black man says that he only dates white women, then he will be critized and attacked by the black community ( especially by black females), just because of a preference.
If someone chooses to disagree with our lifestlye/ belifes, why should we take that personally and attack them? Like Carrie believing that a marriage should consist of a man and woman, Perez and others jumped to the conclusion that her opinion was out of hate for gays, when simply it was just her opinion. Perez does not know the reasoning of Carrie’s choice, only Carrie knows, so why should she be attacked when he does not know the whole background of it?
First off, Perez Hilton is rude. No body should listen to anything he even says because he is so outrageous & in-your-face that everything that comes out of his mouth is offensive. He is famous for blogging rumors about celebrities & because he is homosexual he uses that to differ himself. Just because you are homosexual, does not mean you need to throw it in the air & let everybody know, that is YOUR business. Every heterosexual, bisexual, & homosexual is different, I don’t see why it should all cast a shadow on how the person acts or behaves. What Perez said about Carrie Prejean was wrong on the level of ‘who was he to say her opinion was absurd?’ Common decency is “if you have nothing nice to say, keep it to yourself” & save all of the controversy on something else. Gay marriage & straight marriage should be categorized as ONE PERSON loving ANOTHER & celebrating it, not having protesters interrupt or go into novels & novels about how WRONG it is to be gay.
It is a certainty that people should have the right to be with or sleep with whom ever they please. It is also a fact that this right is the right to freedom and liberty, which is protected under the law of the United States of America. So there for what is the real question at hand? the question is not whether perez hilton was right or wrong, or whether carrie was the one who was actually at fault, this questions can be argued either way and fail to see the big picture. The real question is should gays and/or lesbians be allowed to marriage and whether it is right or wrong for the gay/lesbian community to try to push their ways on others. Marriage has always been a sacred conjunction between a man and a woman, as stated in the bible. Therefore I believe that this is the way it should remain. unless the gay/lesbian community want to make up a new religion that allows them to be together legally, their wanting to be accepted as “normal” is beyond a doubt, not possible. Don’t get me wrong, they are people just like you and i, but the fact of the matter is that among the things that society as a whole considers as being normal today, gay/lesbian marriages or relationships is not one of them. and this is why it will never work out. I personally feel its wrong for them to try force them selves into any religion that doesn’t accept them, by doing this they are trying to change the views and beliefs of millions, due to their own selfishness and way of life…. this is unacceptable. i have no problem with them, the way of life they choose to live is none of my concern, and ultimately i will not be the one to judge them at the end of the road, so i don’t care. But in a wider view of things, they have no right to marriage because the definition of marriage by law is, “A contract made in due form of law, by which a free man and a free woman reciprocally engage to live with each other during their joint lives, in the union which ought to exist between husband and wife.” (’Lectric Law Library’s Lexicon Marriage) and marriage by the religious definition is, ” 5And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
6Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” (Matthew 19:3-6 (King James Version)
Every man woman or child is entitled to their own opinion. freedom of speech guaranteed to us by the First Amendment, of the U.S. Constitution. To be booed from a stage simply because you have an opinion is just absurd. But the first amendment works equally between hetero, homo, and bisexual individuals. This issue is a matter of morals not politics. for example i believe that marriage is a holy testimony of ones love between a man and a woman not between a man and another man or vise versa, but just because i have these views does not mean that i hate gay people and wish nothing for them but an eternity of misery and sorrow. quite the contrary. by all means do what you have to do to find happiness, i wish the best of luck to you. But when i am asked if i approve of gay marriage and respond with an honest and faithful “no” i am bombarded by criticism from those who asked. sorry if i don’t see eye to eye with you pal but quit trying to push your views and morals on me. This whole controversial issue is entangled with politics when Radical conservatives and ridiculously radical liberals decide that instead of “live and let live” its “join or die” simply put, just Let It BE.